Yeah, I know. Even if it gets adopted after the birth, what happens if they decide to contact the mother? I've known several people who were adopted, and some of them have enough problems with not being accepted by their own flesh and blood, what would that do to them, to know their origins? More incoherent rambling I know. I keep struggling with this idea. what I would do, because with someone with this sort of past, it's a very present sort of thing. If a rape happens once, its random, but after more of the same it becomes looking around the corner to see when it will happen again. And waht if I do end up faced with this choice? I think I know what I would do, partly for the situation you mentioned, partly for my own well-being. But the more I think, the less I know, and the more convoluted the whole thing becomes. And it's not really likely, is it? So why do I keep worrying it over and over?
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Date: 2003-04-11 07:46 pm (UTC)